Separation after four children
The exemplary couple of show business Heidi Klum and Seal got married on May 10, 2005, near Seal’s house in Mexico, by the sea, and later on, on May 10, each year, they were married in a different concept. When Klum met Seal, she had a daughter named Leni with businessman Flavio Briatore. After their marriage, Seal also adopted Leni. The couple had four children, Henry, 6 years old, Johan 5 years old, and Lou, 2 years old. However, last year, a statement came from the famous couple that surprised their fans. Seal and Klum, who decided to divorce on the grounds of severe incompatibility, parted ways with the decision of the court on January 21, 2012. After the divorce, various reports emerged that Heidi Klum cheated on her husband of seven years with her bodyguard, Martin Cristen.
Feryal-Kemal Gulman
200 million separation
The famous businessman Kemal Gülman, the boss of the Gültaş company, who is among the top 50 richest people in Turkey in the lists, and his wife Feryal Gülman, one of the most distinguished names of the high society.
Their 21-year marriage has always led them to be shown as an exemplary couple. Feryal Gülman was only 25 and Kemal Gülman was 52 when they got married. The age difference is never between them.
no problem. Both of them expressed how much they love each other in the interviews they always give. Lemi Gülman, son of Kemal Gülman from his previous marriage, and newscaster Ece Özbek got married on July 23, 2013 at the couple’s villa in Bebek. The next day, along with the news of the wedding, the news that Feryal Gülman filed for divorce from his wife of 21 years, Kemal Gülman, shocked the agenda. No one expected such a decision from the couple. The close circle of the couple was also quite surprised by the decision to divorce. Feryal Gülman, surprisingly, announced that she took this decision because of her husband’s infidelity for the unilateral divorce case and demanded 200 million lira compensation. Then it turned out that Kemal Gülman had cheated on his wife of 21 years with a 22-year-old young girl. The parties made various accusations against each other. The divorce case is not over yet.
Monica Bellucci – Vincent Cassel
‘Our love will last forever’
Monica Bellucci, one of the most beautiful women of Italian cinema, married French film actress Vincent Cassell, with whom she played in many films, in 1999. couple from this marriage
They had two daughters, named Deva in 2004 and Leonie in 2010. During their marriage, Bellucci and her husband lived in separate houses so that their relationship would not become routinized.
was known. However, unexpected news came from the couple this year. While Monica Bellucci and Vincent Cassell, who decided to end their 14-year marriage, did not speak on the subject, the Italian
The actress’s spokesperson confirmed the claim. Breaking his silence after what happened, Bellucci explained to the Italian press why they took this decision: “Our professional life has distanced us from each other, but our love will last forever. He is always the exemplary father of my children and will always be close to us.”
– According to the 2012 data of the Turkish Statistical Institute announced in March, the number of married couples increased by 1.9 percent compared to the previous year. Average age among first-time couples
While the difference was 3.2, the average age at first marriage was 26.7 for men and 23.5 for women. The number of divorced couples increased by 2.7 percent in 2012 compared to the previous year.
– 39.6 percent of divorces in 2012 occurred within the first five years of marriage, and 21.2 percent of them were between 6-10 years of marriage.
– Statistically, the highest divorce rate in 2012 is in the Aegean Region with 2.30 per thousand. The Aegean is followed by the Western Anatolia Region. The lowest divorce rate is in the Central Anatolian Region.
Article: Nuriye Crushing / Weekend
WHY DIVORCE INCREASED?
Divorces of famous names of the magazine and business world have been at the top of the agenda in recent months. Based on the famous couples we witnessed their love, marriage and divorce, and taking the opinions of experts, we focused on the phenomenon of divorce.
For years, we watched their love and marriage with envy. We wished we could be happy with them and be a good couple. But this year, something happened to the domestic and foreign couples of the tabloid world that we looked at with that sigh. Star couples such as Ebru Şallı-Harun Tan, Özlem Yıldız-Sinan Serter, Feryal-Kemal Gülman, Monica Bellucci-Vincent Cassell, Heidi Klum-Seal
The separation decisions they made at the same time fell like a bomb on the agenda of the magazine. So what happened that these couples, who were rich, famous, famous and had everything they wanted, broke down? Why do they get divorced when their lives seem fascinating from the outside? Here we searched for answers to all these questions…
WHAT IS DIVORCE?
The family, one of the basic institutions of society, is established through the institution of marriage. When this union cannot be maintained for various reasons, divorce ends the family union. Family Law and Civil Code define marriage and divorce and stipulate the conditions under which divorce can take place. The Civil Code divides the reasons for divorce into two under the headings of ‘General’ and ‘Special’ reasons. General Reasons for Divorce; It is gathered in three parts as the fundamental shaking of the marriage union, the failure to re-establish the common life, and the consensual divorce of the spouses. Special Reasons for Divorce; adultery, intent on life, very bad and dishonorable behavior, committing a crime and leading a dishonorable life, abandonment and mental illness.
INFLUENCE AND RESPONSIBILITY BY STRONG
According to the data of the ‘Family Structure Research in Turkey’ conducted by the Ministry of Family and Social Policies, published in September, interesting results emerged. In the study, many situations from individuals’ television watching habits to their participation in cultural activities, from alcohol use to the decision of marriage were examined and the percentage was hit. Giant research took a picture of Turkey’s family structure. One of the most striking results is the ranking of the reasons for divorce. Contrary to the general belief, beating, cheating, and economic poverty do not take place in the first place in divorce! With a rate of 27.3 percent, ‘indifference and irresponsibility of the spouses to each other’ is by far the first among the reasons for divorce.
WHY DO Celebrities Divorce?
We asked Life Coach and Marriage Therapist Yeşim Varol Şen about the reasons for celebrity divorce. Şen made the following comments about the increase in divorce in the world of celebrities and in recent years: “The private life of celebrities is always a matter of curiosity. Marriages, separations and divorces are a subject that the tabloid press and readers follow with interest. However, divorce in our society
Considering that we frequently receive news of separation from our neighbors, cousins or friends, we can see that the news of separation from the world of celebrities is not much more than that of the general public. Of course, maintaining healthy relationships or marriages under the conditions in which celebrities live can be different from the dynamics of society in general. First of all, the professional requirements of the famous people we are talking about, a strong ego and self-confidence. This strong ego and self-confidence can bring success and fame in the professional field, as well as cause intolerance or self-centered behaviors in their private lives. Therefore, the power of individuals to stand on their own feet is affected by the early separation decision.
It can result…”
‘FAMOUS AND MONEY ARE NOT ENOUGH FOR HAPPINESS’
Yeşim Varol Şen says, “Considering that these famous names are constantly under surveillance and that their fans are watching every step they take, it is certain that they will not want to be on the agenda with their marriages that signal unhappiness and they will want to avoid uncertainty in order to prevent possible comments.
Considering that despite all the negative conditions that the woman experienced in her relationship or marriage, due to social pressure or economic conditions, she could not decide to separate and had to continue unhappy marriages, we can consider these celebrities who can stand on their own feet and have a high ability to live alone as positive examples. Above all, names such as Özlem Yıldız and Ebru Şallı have managed to become a family, and as far as we can see from the tabloids, they have established a regular marriage life. I think that their decision to leave was taken for healthy reasons for their own lives. Fame and money do not always provide sufficient conditions for happiness. As a result, communication and expectations between men and women do not change according to occupational groups or income status. It is certain that a famous and wealthy woman will also expect attention from her husband. Celebrity divorce news, the separation of our neighbor living next door
I think it should not be perceived as a news that is very different from the decision. Everything is for people…”
MOST POPULAR REASONS FOR DIVORCE
1. Adultery
2. Displaying bad and degrading behavior
3. Leading a life without dignity
4. Mental illness
5. Saying that you don’t love your spouse
6. Saying that you will marry someone else
7. Avoiding contact with family
8. Threatening your spouse
9. To leave with family. Kicking out of the house
10. Not to take it with you abroad
11. Avoiding sexual intercourse
12. Not working
13. Saying you can’t forget your ex
14. Telling your partner that you are cold
15. Beating your spouse
16. Binge drinking
17. Intruding on life
18. Not caring at birth
19. Inability to have sexual intercourse
20. Avoiding mouth and body odor treatment. Not taking care of body cleaning
Ebru Şallı-Harun Tan
end of fairy tale
Ebru Şallı, who married singer Ozan Orhon in 1997 after she was chosen Miss Turkey in 1995, lasted only one year. Then, in 2002, businessman Harun Tan met with himself thanks to a game edited by him: Tan wanted to work with Ebru Şallı, whom he had been interested in for a long time, for the catalog shoots of YKM, which he owns. He signed with Ebru Şallı through his agency. During the two-day catalog shoot, Tan never left the set for a moment. The closeness that started between Şallı and Tan during the filming extended to marriage. The couple, who got married in a magnificent wedding at Swissotel, where the press was not taken, went to the Maldives for their honeymoon. After Ebru Şallı got married to Harun Tan, she managed to become one of the sought-after names of socialite events in a short time. They attended all the invitations together. In fact, they were among the most popular couples of parties with their harmony in their clothing. Ebru Şallı, one of the first names to join the well-known families of the business world, also took care of Harun Tan’s son Can from her previous marriage and became a mother. The couple got married in 2004.
They had two sons, Beren and Pars in 2010. Their marriage was like a fairy tale. Ebru Şallı, who talks about her husband with love and affection in every interview, in an interview she gave last year; “11 years… It’s a long time to maintain a relationship with the same love and passion. Love, marriage, children… These can become habits over time,” he said. The famous couple announced their sudden divorce on July 13. Regarding her divorce, Ebru Şallı said, “Some of the differences of opinion and time we have been through have led us to divorce.” Şallı, who is now with singer Sinan Akçıl, expresses that he is happy to know Akçıl.
Ozlem Yildiz-Sinan Serter
It was called ‘Cinderella’s tale’
Ozlem Yildiz, one of the most beautiful presenters in Turkey, became famous in 1996 by being a hostess in ‘Charkifelek’. At that time, the period of love and engagement with Mehmet Ali Erbil did not fall from the agenda of the magazine. However, this union ended as a result of Mehmet Ali Erbil’s infidelity. Responding to questions about her private life for many years by saying that she wanted to have a love marriage, Özlem Yıldız’s wish came true with Sinan Serter, a ship owner businessman whom she met and married at Swissotel in 2005. Because Serter is a member of one of the well-known families of the society, ‘Cinderella’s tale’ comments were made for this marriage. The expensive gestures that Serter made to his wife Özlem Yıldız and their son Demir, who was born in 2007, added to the happiness of the couple.
reinforced. However, in 2011, as Sinan Serter’s business deteriorated and his bank debt of 4.2 million lira was heard by the press, everyone thought that the couple would break up. Contrary to the comments made, Özlem Yıldız took care of her marriage and returned to the television world, which she left because she got married, to help her husband with his debts. All of this was not enough to save the couple’s marriage and they announced their divorce on October 5th. This happiness, which everyone looks up to with envy, is a thing of the past.