KizlarSoruyor.com conducted a survey among its members asking, “Who should pay the bill? How should men and women behave when the bill arrives?” He looked for answers to his questions.
While most of the women who participated in the vote said, “Both of them should put their hands in their pockets and the bill should be paid by sharing,” most of the male members said, “The man should pay the bill.”
A total of 9,411 people participated in the voting, including 4,833 women and 4,578 men. While 48% of the participating women answered, “Both of them should put their hands in their pockets and the account should be paid by sharing,” drawing a more “egalitarian” picture; The majority of men (41%) drew a more traditionalist profile, saying “Men should pay the bill.” The second most preferred option by female participants was “The man should pay the bill”, while the second choice of the men was “Both of them should put their hands in their pockets, the bill should be paid by sharing”. The least preferred answer was “Women should pay the bill” with 4%.
Here are some of the opinions expressed by members…
berinnnn Age: 24
I think it was always men who paid. (In Turkey). No matter how much I insisted, I could never manage to pay. I think sometimes the boy and sometimes the girl should pay; There should be no expectation from the man, nor should the girl be oppressed.
Unforgiven Age: 31
I think it doesn’t really matter who pays, except for the first date. Those who have money should pay… but the first date is special. The man must definitely pay.
jasmeyk Age: 19
Let whoever wants to pay. I hate the money thing. Whatever the situation requires. No one needs to be embarrassed and ashamed.
UnhappyKing Age: 22
I would not make him pay even if I died, I would consider it an insult even to be offered.
Peacetrain Age: 18
The taboo that men pay the bill must be broken now. It would be nice if my fellow humans also learned to put their hands in their pockets. Personally, it would bother me to make my boyfriend pay, we’ll pay together.
mehcab Age: 70
Why does a man who has no money in his pocket take women to dinner here and there? The moment the woman I take to dinner reaches into her bag, the job is over and she loses my respect.
Private User (18-24)
But what happened if we didn’t get their money? They went and spent their remaining money with other girls. Of course the man will pay. A man is not left with much money; if you don’t eat, they will make you eat.
Eziremsem Age: 46
Sometimes the man pays, sometimes the woman pays, and once an agreement is reached, these are not a problem.
Nesquikcanavari Age: 18
All kinds of men must pay. It’s like a rule or something.