Obstetrics and Gynecology Specialist Op. Dr. Meral Sönmezer warns against the worries that may be caused by hearsay information about the first sexual intercourse… Well, how should the first sexual intercourse, the first night be? Let’s take a closer look at Sönmezer’s suggestions and information:
Dr. Meral Sönmezer says, “The superstitions about sexuality that are reluctant to talk or even considered taboo negatively affect the sexual life of many people. Hearing information can lead to anxiety and tension, turning the first sexual intercourse into a bad experience and may have a negative impact on later sexual life.”
10 SUGGESTIONS FOR THE FIRST SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP
Sönmezler shares the following information and suggestions for first sexual intercourse: Here are 10 information and suggestions about first sexual intercourse.
It should be noted that sexuality is a subjective experience for everyone, and it’s more about feeling comfortable, confident, and being able to communicate, rather than having perfect technique or performing a certain performance. Sexual behavior is a form of self-expression that includes human desires, values and priorities. Men and women experience sexuality in different ways because they are physiologically and psychologically different from each other.
- Sexual intercourse is not only a physical activity consisting of penile-vaginal union, but also a psychological experience in which emotions are important. For this reason, it is important to prepare for sexual intercourse both emotionally and physically with foreplay before sexual intercourse.
- Foreplay increases sexual arousal, making sexual intercourse both more comfortable and more enjoyable. In addition, by communicating with each other how they feel and what they like, it is possible to prevent contractions and pain for women, and premature ejaculation or erection problems for men.
- It should not be forgotten that the use of condoms is necessary for a healthy sexual life in terms of sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy risk.
- The couple may be disappointed to find that their first sexual experience is not what they imagined or seen in porn movies. But like everything else, sex gets better with experience.
- For this reason, it will be the first step of a happy sexual life for the couple to leave themselves alone in the first sexual intercourse, to explore each other’s bodies by listening to the voice of their bodies without thinking about anything and to feel their partners, and to focus on their experiences at the moment.