Text: Seçil Kılıç
Sexuality is a sharing that should be experienced without hesitation between spouses. However, women may prefer to hide their fantasies due to social pressures, shyness and embarrassment. However, experts say that women are much more creative than men when it comes to sexual fantasies. You can add color to your monotonous sexual life with your fantasies.
romantic fantasies
Surprising but true! Studies show that women spend much more time day fantasizing than men! Moreover, women’s fantasies are more romantic and emotional. While men focus on fantasies in which genitals and body images are prominent, women have scripted and highly romantic fantasies. Men, on the other hand, like to imagine things they’ve never tried or can’t try when it comes to fantasy.
Satisfaction with fantasy
According to research, women can reach satisfaction by just fantasizing and not having a sexual relationship. For men, although fantasy is an effective stimulus, it does not provide satisfaction when it does not result in sexual intercourse.
Men find women who express their fantasies attractive.
The colorful inner worlds of women actually give them superiority in sexual life. However, women have difficulty in expressing their fantasies to their spouses and can bury their fantasies in their imaginations. The woman who wants to tell her husband about her fantasy mostly asks her husband, “How do you know that?” or “Have you experienced anything like this before?” He hesitates to ask such questions. However, experts agree that fantasies do not arise through learning, but purely through one’s creativity and imagination. Moreover, self-confident
A woman who can tell her husband what she wants in a way feels more sexy to her husband.
sexual objects
The easiest and perhaps the most colorful way to revive the monotonous love life is to get support from sexual objects and sexy underwear… With the sexual objects that are safe to use, certified and chosen by the couple together, the love life can suddenly become passionate. However, experts underline that the fantasy and toys that the couple does not decide together can turn one of the spouses away from sexuality in the long run. Themed costumes, sexy suspenders and black underwear are also among the first choices of couples.
Light and space have a stimulating effect
It is useful not to confine sexuality only to the bedroom. Experiencing sexuality in different corners of the house to add color to the relationship can increase enthusiasm. External stimuli such as romantic music and a dim candlelight are the golden details of a colorful sexual life.
love games
Having sexual fantasies provides ease of arousal, especially for couples who have problems with sexual desire in older ages. Fantasies reduce the pressure on couples. It helps the person to become airborne and self-erotic during sexual intercourse. It keeps the emotions alive; it colorizes and enriches sexual life, away from monotony and mediocrity. Fantasies can also play a role in reducing the chances of divorce and infidelity, which increase as the years pass in marriage and the relationship matures. Therefore, experts, couples and
He recommends that especially those whose relationship has exceeded a certain period of time, get support from the magical world of fantasies from time to time in order to renew their relationship.