Is it healthy for a woman to have a relationship with a younger man? Why does this relationship begin and how does it continue? What does a young man see in a mature woman? What does a woman expect from a man her child’s age? Let’s examine it together:
• As women mature, they become aware of their power and beauty. The woman has now discovered what she wants and has reached a certain maturity in her inner journey. The electricity emitted by a woman who is confident and at peace with her sexual identity attracts young men like a magnet.
• A woman who has reached a certain age and has matured tries to purify and simplify her relationship from emotional turmoil. It is also a source of emotional attraction for the young man, as sentences such as where were you last night or why didn’t you call me are out of his vocabulary. Especially if a woman has a career, sometimes even a phone call during the day will be unnecessary.
• A young man has a lot to learn from a strong woman. For a man, being with a mature woman is like climbing a staircase where he jumps three steps at a time.
• Since the mature woman has experienced love and relationships before, she gives the young man good feelings. He does not act capricious or intervene. There is no need to talk about where this relationship will go. She is the woman who directs the course of the relationship.
• Of course, there are women who take their relationship with a young man into marriage, but since the mature woman’s expectation from her relationship with a young man is not marriage, the man finds himself in a corner.
It doesn’t feel stuck. He enjoys his relationship without the threat of being forced to take a step he is not ready for yet.
• A mature woman, especially one who has a successful career, can use her financial power to spice up her relationship. However, women’s economic power can also become troublesome for men.
• The biggest emotional expectation of a mature woman from her young man is to make her feel his admiration for her and emphasize her beauty. Wine influence of past years
Every woman likes to hear that she created something.
• The mature woman has made peace with her sexuality and knows her body. She expects the young man to spice up her life and help her enjoy her maturity. Sexuality no longer serves to search for oneself, but to satisfy the self that one has discovered.
• They say that a man who marries an older woman becomes rich. It should not be dismissed as an urban legend. A woman’s life experience and knowledge do not necessarily lead to this belief.
It has a contribution.
Can you turn a deaf ear to a friend?
But despite all this, these ageless relationships may not be as easy as they seem. First of all, friends and relatives do not accept this relationship easily. The society, which looks with understanding at a mature man who is with a younger woman, on the contrary, hypocritically does not respect the relationship between a mature woman and a young man. We listen to the sounds coming from around us.
If we close them, will these relationships be very long-lasting? Although there are exceptions, it generally does not last very long. Mature women get bored after a while. He seeks power, he will take the helm of the ship
a captain calls. After a point, instead of the colorful nights she had with the young man, similar
Looks for long conversations where experiences can be shared. Considering that men mature late and that big men throw Play Station parties like high school kids, we should not forget that the woman who will manage the young man must have patience. Neither the astroturf football matches nor the club parties end for the young man. If a woman has raised the bar of patience with the maturity of her age and also longs for motherhood, what’s the matter?
After the mature man-young girl dilemma, we are faced with the mature woman-young man equation. We, the women, were the first to react to this situation! ‘Why, why?’ We didn’t ask. Yeşim Varol Şen took the subject under the spotlight.
We are already used to seeing young girls next to older men. Things that we see a lot begin to seem normal after a while, so we accepted this situation and went away. We found it normal and easy to understand that a man would wear a woman almost his granddaughter’s age on his arm. Instead of questioning the man’s reasons, we questioned the woman’s reasons: “Money was attractive,” we said. We said, “She longs for a father” or “She definitely has her eye on the man’s social status.” We gossiped from behind the doors, but none of us saw the reason for the relationship as ‘love’. We had just digested the equation of mature men and young women, when we also encountered the equation of mature women and young men. Ironically, women were the first to react to this situation. The women, who judged the mature man with a few sentences and accepted him by calling him a ‘card woman’ at most, began to criticize him when it came to the mature women who seduced the hot men. Women are the ones who are criticized for their immorality, setting a bad example for young people, and bets that the relationship will not work out. If we call half of these reactions common sense, it wouldn’t be wrong to call half of them jealousy.
They are with the young people too!
When we look at the relationships of celebrities who choose to be with young men, we come across those who maintain their relationships happily, as well as those who can easily predict that the relationship will not work out… Seda Sayan, who sometimes falls in love with men much younger than herself, prevents her from having a relationship with a younger man with her careful form and care. There seems to be no reason. It’s no surprise that men want to be with a woman as beautiful, successful and strong as her. However, it is not difficult to guess that a woman as strong, successful and with a high sense of responsibility as Seda Sayan will, at some point, need a man she can admire and who is stronger than herself. A woman with such a developed sense of responsibility and management skills prefers to be with a strong man whom she can lean on when she gets tired, rather than having to clean up after herself.
Pınar Altuğ is one of the exceptional names who turns a deaf ear to all criticism and media pressure and brings her relationship within the family framework. The best answer to those who criticize little girls, Altuğ’s relationship, and those who expect three days to live.
When it is said that Nilgün Belgün is having relationships with men younger than herself, many people will probably be surprised. She is such an energetic and ageless woman that it is very difficult for a person who is absorbed in her sparkle to notice the man next to her. Nilgün Belgün is a smart woman who knows what she wants. Whatever he is going through, there is something he knows.
Meltem Cumbul surprised both her fans and her future husband’s family with her decision to marry. Cumbul’s smile, who is a master at hiding his inner world from the media, shows a little child inside.
Doesn’t that make you think it is? Didn’t the young husband she chose suit that little girl?
Ebru Gündeş is an artist who always displays a mature stance. It is obvious that his wife, who is said to be 10 years younger than him, also has a mature and strong appearance.
His wife’s maturity makes up for the age difference between them.