If I told you that every dream we see has a counterpart in our life… But I don’t mean that your dreams come out in real life, but that they point to anything in our life. In other words, the messages they give us through symbols. Many of us have sexual dreams from time to time. Some are so disturbing that we question ourselves. Imagine you are heterosexual, but you saw yourself in the same bed with your same sex. Moreover, that person is your coworker! When you opened your eyes, you thought how embarrassing it was, tried to forget as soon as possible and prayed that you would never have such a dream again. Well, let’s say this dream repeated over and over again. Oh my god it’s like a nightmare! If you understand a little about dreams, you know you don’t have to worry. But if you don’t know, I’m sure this article will sprinkle water on you. Dreams about sex actually point to our relationships, rather than a sexual problem. Psychologist Dr. from NP Istanbul Polyclinic. Cengiz Demirsoy says that we need to look at two things in order to understand what kind of relationship sexual dreams indicate: the quality of the sexual relationship in the dream and the person/place. “The first thing we look at in the dream is the quality of the sexual relationship. It can be pleasurable or it can be a challenging relationship. For example, if I am forced to have sexual intercourse in my dream, I should ask myself the following question; ‘What am I struggling with?’ As a result, I might end up in a situation where my male boss is crushing me.”
Being with your fellow man:
“I was in a dream with a girl I knew. I never had such a fantasy; but I wonder if I’m subconsciously wondering about it?” a friend of mine admitted in our conversation… This bothered him a lot, he was even hesitant to say it or not. The explanation that will reduce the feeling of discomfort in such dreams comes from Psychologist Cengiz Demirsoy: “Do not perceive the people you see in your dreams as real. They are just symbols. They often point to someone else in your life. We need to question their characteristics and look at their equivalents in our lives. This is how we can make dreams come true.” Seeing that you are with a famous person:
While looking at people, let’s say you saw that you were with Elvis Presley. However, the probability of such a person being alive or with you is zero! Then you should look at this. “What is Elvis Presley like?” ask yourself. You should look at his impression of you. You said, “For me, he’s a good artist, but suddenly he gets angry.” Do you have someone like that in your life then? you should look. This person may turn out to be your spouse, friend or boss. But let’s say you don’t have someone in your life and you dreamed of someone you admire. And you had a very good experience. So you may need such a relationship in your life. Psychologist Cengiz Demirsoy says that people and places should form a unity in dreams: “Let’s say you saw the actor you admire in your dream, you are in high school and he forces you into a relationship. That person can be your boss. So what does it have to do with school? I asked you about your thoughts about the school. You said, ‘It was beautiful, but I had a lot of trouble’. Here’s the equivalent of your school, which can actually be your job or workplace.”
Incest dreams:
These are the dreams that terrify and worry the person the most! If the person can tolerate other dreams, but sees himself in a sexual relationship with his father or mother, the person will ask ‘Am I a pervert?’ can get the feeling. Of course, this is a dream, but Demirsoy says that people live their dreams as if they come true: “Get rid of this feeling; because having such dreams does not mean you have perverse feelings. Again, in real life, you need to think about who has the characteristics of your father or whichever relative of yours. For example, if the relationship you had with your father was unpleasant in your dream, this could describe your relationship with your spouse.”