How to make men fall in love? is among the questions whose answers are questioned on the internet every period… So, is this question true? Are there ways to make a man fall in love? Relationship, Life and Executive Coach Ayşen Tek says, “When you discover the values of the other person and perform behaviors that appeal to these values, it is very easy to enter their heart and win their love.” Tek’s comments are as follows:
ARE THERE WAYS TO MAKE SOMEONE FALL IN LOVE?
Before moving on to the steps of making men fall in love, I want you to ask yourself; Do you have sufficient concepts of self-confidence, self-esteem and self-worth? Do you feel valuable? Because when you do not feel sufficient, complete and whole, your crises of jealousy will haunt you, in which case you will only make the person you desire avoid you, not fall in love with you. If you want to make someone fall in love with you, your biggest helper will be self-confidence and courage. The fact that you love yourself will further increase your attractiveness in his eyes.
12 SUGGESTIONS TO MAKE A MAN FALL IN LOVE
After the studies you have done with yourself, let’s start our journey to make men fall in love:
- You Should Be Wondering About Him
- Talk About Topics You Enjoy Talking About
- Complete Your Deficiencies and Weaknesses
- Deal with Compassionate
- Always Be Natural
- Be Exciting, Not Boring
- Create Uncertainties
- Make You Feel Special and Powerful
- Always Confirm
- Don’t Persist, Don’t Strive, and Sometimes Back Down
- Make You Feel Free
- Don’t Let It Figure You Out
You Should Be Wondering About Him
In order to seduce and make someone fall in love with you, you must first be curious about that person, ask open-ended questions to get them to explain, and listen carefully. You should also focus on what you don’t say as well as what you say. Encourage him by letting him talk about his dreams and expectations, try to find the gaps and gaps in his life and show him that he can fill these areas in his life.
Talk About Topics You Enjoy Talking About
Get him to talk about the topics he feels happy about and enjoys talking about. Men get motivated the more they tell, and the person who tells them always becomes more trusting. Let him/her explain himself/herself, but do not explain yourself in detail. Be a good listener, find points in what he says that he doesn’t even realize, and help him discover them.
Complete Your Deficiencies and Weaknesses
The only place where we can receive the attention, love and value that we do not receive from our family and where we can complete our shortcomings is our romantic relationship. In order to seduce and make someone fall in love, you need to know the other person’s values, expectations, weaknesses, desires, fears, gaps and make them feel that you can complete these aspects together.
Deal with Compassionate
When you fill his life with beauty with your care, love and compassion, he will believe that he can complete his life with you and he will fall in love with you. Let him feel like the center of your attention. When you glorify him with care, affection, love and appreciation, he has no choice but to fall in love with you.
Always Be Natural
The most attractive state of a woman is her natural state. Love loves naturalness, not artificiality, so you should ensure that the process of falling in love goes smoothly and away from artificiality.
Be Exciting, Not Boring
When you constantly act with your agenda and make timely plans and programs, he puts you in the boring category in his mind. Because there are no surprises in a planned, programmed life, it is not fun. This situation is not enjoyable for men and as a result, it will not make them fall in love with you. Being able to stay in the moment, flow and be spontaneous will strengthen your naturalness and make you look more fun and impressive. Daily life, your troubles, problems, complaints, and troubles are not behaviors that will help him fall in love with you. Remember, in men’s lives; He wants her to be a happy woman who offers exciting, different, fascinating and surprising moments. When he falls in love with you and your relationship progresses, there will be a lot of negativity to share about life and then you will share everything, do not rush.
Create Uncertainties
Send mixed signals to the man you want to fall in love with you, but don’t let him interpret these signals as inconsistent behavior. Unclear, ambiguous situations make men think, so he spends more time with you in his mind, gives meanings, sometimes gets confused, and finds himself falling in love with you as a result of his comments and analyses. Men don’t fall in love with women who are planners, seek extreme logic in every situation, compete and try to prove their intelligence. I wonder if he will give up on me. He falls in love with women who make him fear and wonder. For this reason, you should make him curious about you and afraid of losing you.
Make You Feel Special and Powerful
If you make a man feel special, he will never give up on you, when he feels good around you, he will get attached to you and never want to leave. The most important step in making a man fall in love and managing him is to make him feel valuable next to you. You have to let him help you, protect you, and feel strong with that. Men fall in love with women who make them feel strong and sufficient, and they don’t even think of leaving their side.
Confirm
Validation is very important to people. Find a feature of the person you want to fall in love with that they like and sincerely appreciate it. Make him feel that everything he does for you, big or small, is valuable and thank him. Smiling is actually the best non-verbal approval that will make him bond with you. To make him fall in love with you, look into his eyes and smile a lot.
Don’t Persist, Don’t Strive, and Sometimes Back Down
Being insistent, forcing, and making too much effort ruins the naturalness and magic of the process. When women exhibit these behaviors out of fear of losing, they no longer attract the attention of men because the power has now passed to the man. To avoid this situation, retreat from time to time and make him think about you and follow you.
Make You Feel Free
Considering the difficulty and exhaustion of life, no one wants to restrict, be questioned and explain for hours in their romantic relationship. Make your man realize that you offer him endless freedom to fall in love with you. Because remember, when you don’t get jealous, when you don’t bore him and when you let him go, he will become more attached to you. Just express your admiration, appreciate, show affection. To make him fall in love with you; You must make him think that he cannot experience the beauties he experienced with you with anyone else. Men wouldn’t trade the place where they feel best, that is, the side of the woman they love, for anything.
Don’t Let It Figure You Out
Do not explain every detail about your life at length, sometimes leave it unfinished and do not complete it. People pursue not what they have achieved or solved, but what they cannot achieve, and people who prey on their minds. When he can’t figure you out, he thinks more about you. The more time he spends with you in his mind, the faster he will fall in love with you.
CAN YOU MAKE SOMEONE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU (ELELE 2014)
At the end of our article, we add the article titled “Can you make someone fall in love with you” from the Elele archive (2014 – Deniz Gürlek). Here are the comments in Elele at that time:
Love is such a complex concept that most of the time we cannot even control who we fall in love with, so of course it is much more difficult to control the emotions of others. But it’s still worth a try… How about some easy-to-apply little tips that will be your weapon of love?
• Do new things with him that he hasn’t done before. Because, according to experts, innovation increases dopamine in the brain. The increase in dopamine, which is a natural stimulant and among the basic hormones of desire, motivation and desire, also makes it easier for the other person to fall in love with you.
• Don’t be afraid to be quiet sometimes. If mutual silence makes you nervous, rest assured it makes him nervous too. He or she will be curious about what goes on in your mind during the silence. And the more he wonders, the more he will want to explore and solve you.
• Women want security and predictability in love, but men, on the contrary, look for excitement, danger and mystery in love. So make him feel that you will not offer him a monotonous life. Predictability makes you boring. Nobody falls in love with a woman they find boring.
• Don’t seem indecisive in front of him. Confident women are always more attractive. A confident woman knows what she wants, from where she wants to eat to what music she wants to listen to.
• Men speak in black and white. Women are grey. And as you know, there are more than fifty shades of grey. So a man says what he wants to say. The woman, on the other hand, always tells things by cheating. But a man falls in love much more easily with a woman who speaks like him, that is, a woman who says what she wants to say openly…
• A sense of humor is sexy and attractive. You don’t need to perform a stand-up show, but make jokes. Joking makes you strong. When the other person jokes with you, don’t get defensive immediately, respond with a humorous tone.
• Don’t complain about your life, even passionately tell him about the things you love about your life, whether it’s a hobby or your job. Being satisfied with your life makes you an object of desire. Because men prefer women who are in control of their lives, not women who need them and who will add meaning to their lives with a man.
• Even if his car, the brand of his watch or his shoes are important to you, do not let him know about it. Just as women want men to find them beautiful, but feel worthless when the only thing they find in themselves is beauty, that man will feel inadequate if he thinks that the only thing you find in him is materiality.
• Imitate his facial movements and even his body language in general without letting him know. Laugh when he laughs, lean back when he leans back, bow your head when he bows his head forward. If your brain waves are synchronized, the other person will subconsciously think that you are similar to each other. And people unconsciously fall in love with people they find similar to themselves.
• Think about boys’ first loves in childhood. They always fall in love with authority figures, like their teachers or the nurse at the doctor’s office. Because no matter how much they don’t want to admit it, they are attracted to women who will leave them powerless. Therefore, make sure to create your own area of authority in front of him.
• Don’t ask him anything more than twice. If he doesn’t answer twice, it means he doesn’t want to answer and the answer you force will either be a lie or will be of no use to you. On the contrary, in such a situation, in his eyes, you will take on the role of the mother who questions him.
• Do not tell him about your past relationships. Even if he tells you, don’t tell him. If he asks, politely dismiss him with vague sentences such as ‘we went our separate ways’. Position yourself as a reward for him. Leave your old relationships outside of the coverage area.
• Smile. Because when you smile, the other person automatically smiles back at you. The muscles that go up when smiling trigger the nerves. This increases the chemicals associated with pleasure.
• Do not say anything negative about yourself during the dating phase. Always tell him about a pleasant life. Remember, it is very important that he believes that you are happy without him.
• Let him/her feel useful. This could be in the form of handing him the bottle (which you can easily open) because he couldn’t open it, or in the form of letting him buy the food, or in the form of asking him for something simple to buy from the grocery store when he comes to you. The important thing is to establish the balance between you taking and him giving.
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