This actually means that they don’t want to commit and are afraid of a real relationship. Someone who truly loves someone has no hesitation in making future commitments and promises. And he keeps his word. Some people do not realize that their feelings change quickly and they often make promises, but after a while they do not keep their promises because their feelings change when they made the promise.
How do we know if we truly love a person?
One of the easiest ways to understand is whether you think we could be happier with someone other than the one we love. A person who loves someone does not think about whether he would have a better relationship with someone else.
It is not normal to be influenced by someone else during a relationship, so…
It is normal in the sense that almost everyone experiences it. However, it means that that person’s relationship is problematic. It may occur due to many problems, especially problems related to attachment, problems in their sexual life, and problems related to the need to be liked. Sexual Dysfunction Specialist, Psychiatrist Prof. Dr. Doğan Şahin answered our questions.
What is a healthy relationship and how should it be?
The most difficult thing a person can achieve in his life is a healthy, happy and satisfied relationship. Because the two essential things for this are two healthy people. A person who knows himself realistically, who can love himself, who is independent and individualized, who can connect to life and people with love, is such a rare thing that it is even more difficult for two healthy people to come together. One of the most fundamental problems of modern people is the difficulties in loving and being loved. A healthy and happy relationship can start with knowing oneself, confronting one’s flaws, and accepting them. However, it requires endless, long labor and effort. True love and affection is the result of careful effort.
Does love really last 3 years?
The lifespan of love is not 3 years as it is thought. In fact, true love can only begin after three years. What ends in those 3 years is not love, but sexual excitement and passion.
How important is sex in love and affection?
Of course, sex is very important in a mature sexual love. A love in which sexuality is not lacking or good, and a sexuality without love are both incomplete. However, people can still feel in love without sex or feel sexually excited without being in love. Not only does everything have to be perfect in every relationship, but it is also impossible. People do not and cannot experience many things perfectly in many areas of life.
What are the requirements for a happy and sexually satisfying relationship?
It can be listed as follows; First, the couple was able to find their first relationship in each other in the early period. In other words, one of the most basic emotional needs of a human being is the need to be loved, to be affectionate, to be cared for, to be cared for, which are formed in the parent-father relationship at an early age, but develop and mature over time. Every person needs to be embraced, spared, protected with love and compassion, and to feel that this will not change no matter what. In a mature love relationship, couples have the capacity to meet each other’s needs and they do this.