How do men fall in love? The question is among the questions whose answers are questioned on the internet of every period… Well, is this question correct? Are there ways to make a man fall in love? Relationship, Life and Executive Coach Ayşen Tek says, “When you discover the values of the other person and act to address these values, it is very easy to get into their heart and win their love.” Tek’s comments are as follows:
ARE THERE WAYS TO MAKE SOMEONE IN LOVE?
Before taking the steps to make men fall in love, I want you to ask yourself; Do you have enough of the concepts of self-confidence, self-esteem and self-worth? Do you feel valued? Because when you do not feel adequate, complete and whole, your jealousy attacks will not leave you, in this case, you will not make the person you want fall in love with you, but only escape from you. If you want to make someone fall in love with yourself, your biggest helpers will be self-confidence and courage. The fact that you love yourself will also increase your attractiveness in his eyes.
12 SUGGESTIONS FOR LOVING A MAN
Let’s start our journey of making men fall in love after the work you have done with yourself:
- You Should Worry About Him
- Talk About Topics He Enjoys Talking About
- Complement Your Deficiencies and Weaknesses
- Deal With Compassion
- Always Be Natural
- Be Exciting, Not Boring
- Create Uncertainties
- Feel Special and Powerful
- Always Confirm
- Persistence, Struggle, and Sometimes Back Up
- Feel Free
- Don’t Let It Untie You
You Should Worry About Him
In order to seduce and fall in love with yourself, you must first be curious about that person, ask open-ended questions to get them to tell you, and listen carefully. You should also focus on what you don’t say as well as what you say. Encourage him to talk about his dreams and expectations, try to find the gaps and gaps in his life, and show him that you can fill these areas in your life.
Talk About Topics He Enjoys Talking About
Get him to talk about things he feels happy about and enjoys talking about. The more men tell, the more motivated they are, and the narrator always trusts more. Let him talk about himself, but don’t talk too much about yourself. Be a good listener, find the points that even he himself did not notice in what he told and let him discover it.
Complement Your Deficiencies and Weaknesses
The only place where we can get the attention, love and value that we don’t see from our family and fill our missing parts is only in our romantic relationship. In order to seduce and fall in love, you need to know the values, expectations, weaknesses, desires, fears and gaps of the person in front of you and make them feel that you can complete these sides together.
Deal With Compassion
When you fill her life with beauty with your care, love and compassion, she believes that she can complete it with you for life and she will fall in love with you. Let him feel at the center of your attention. When you glorify him with care, compassion, love and appreciation, he has no choice but to fall in love with you.
Always Be Natural
The most attractive state of a woman is the natural state. Love loves naturalness, not artificiality, so you should ensure that the process of falling in love goes in the flow and away from artificiality.
Be Exciting, Not Boring
When you are constantly moving with your agenda, when you make time plans and schedules, it puts you in the boring category in his mind. Because in a planned, programmed life there are no surprises, it is not fun. This is not pleasant to men and does not make them fall in love with you as a result. Being in the moment, being in the flow and being spontaneous will strengthen your naturalness and will make you look more fun and impressive. Daily life, troubles, problems, complaints and troubles are not behaviors that will contribute to falling in love with you. Do not forget in the life of men; she wants to be a happy woman who offers exciting, different, fascinating and surprising moments. When he falls in love with you and your relationship takes off, there will be a lot of negativity to share about life and then you will share everything, don’t be in a hurry.
Create Uncertainties
Send mixed signals to the man you want to fall in love with, but don’t let him take these signals as inconsistent behavior. Unclear, ambiguous situations make men think, in this way they spend more time with you in their minds, add meanings, sometimes get confused, and find themselves falling in love with you at the end of the comments and analyzes they make. Men don’t fall in love with women who are planners, look for extreme logic in every situation, compete and try to prove their intelligence. I wonder if he will give up on me, he will fall in love with women who make him fear and wonder. For this reason, you have to make him wonder about you and be afraid of losing you.
Feel Special and Powerful
If you make a man feel special, he will never give up on you, he gets attached to you when he feels good with you and he never wants to leave. The most important step to be able to fall in love and manage a man is to make him feel valuable by your side. You have to let him help you, protect you, and feel powerful with it. Men fall in love with women who make them feel powerful and competent, and they don’t even think about leaving them.
Approve
Confirmation is very important to people. Find one aspect of the person you want to fall in love with and sincerely appreciate it. Make him feel that everything he does for you, big or small, is valuable and thank him. Smiling is also the best nonverbal confirmation that will make him connect with you, in fact, smile a lot by looking into his eyes to make him fall in love with you.
Persistence, Struggle, and Sometimes Back Up
Behaving persistently, forcing, spending too much effort spoils the naturalness and magic of the process. When women exhibit these behaviors with the fear of losing, they no longer attract the attention of men because the power has now passed to men. In order not to experience this situation, step back from time to time and make him think of you and follow you.
Feel Free
When we think about the difficulty and tiring of life, no one wants to be restricted, questioned and explain for hours in their romantic relationship. Make him realize that you are giving him endless freedom to fall in love with you. Because when you don’t get jealous, don’t get bored and set it free, remember that it will be more attached to you. You just express your admiration, appreciation, compassion. to fall in love with you; You have to make him think that he can’t live with anyone the beauties he had with you. Men don’t change the place where they feel best, the side of the woman they love, for anything.
Don’t Let It Untie You
Do not tell every detail about your life at length, sometimes leave it half and do not complete it. People don’t chase after what they have achieved, what they have solved, but what they can’t achieve, people who mess with their minds. He thinks more about you when he can’t figure you out. The more time he spends with you in his mind, the faster he falls in love with you.
CAN YOU LOVE SOMEONE WITH YOURSELF (ELELE 2014)
At the end of our article, we include the article titled “Can you make someone fall in love with you” from the Elele archive (2014 – Deniz Gürlek). Here are the comments in Elele at that time:
Love is such a complex concept that we can’t even control who we fall in love with most of the time, so it’s obviously much harder to control other people’s emotions. But it’s still worth a try… How about some easy-to-apply little hacks that will be your love weapon?
• Do new things with him that he hasn’t done before. Because, according to experts, innovation increases dopamine in the brain. The increase in dopamine, a natural stimulant, which is among the basic hormones of desire, motivation and desire, also makes it easier for the other person to fall in love with you.
• Don’t be afraid to be quiet every now and then. If mutual silence makes you nervous, be sure it also makes him nervous. He will wonder what is on your mind during the silence. And as he wonders, he will want to discover and solve you.
• Women want security and predictability in love, but men, on the contrary, seek excitement, danger and mystery in love. So make him feel that you are not going to offer him a monotonous life. Predictability makes you boring. No one falls in love with a woman they find boring.
• Do not appear indecisive in front of him. Confident women are always more attractive. A confident woman also knows what she wants, from where she wants to eat to what she wants to listen to music.
• Men speak in black and white. Women are grey. And as you know, there are more than fifty shades of gray. So a man says what he wants to say. The woman, on the other hand, tells the word by defrauding it. But a man falls in love much more easily with a woman who speaks like him, that is, a woman who openly says what she wants to say…
• The sense of humor is sexy and attractive. You don’t need to put on a stand-up show, but joke around. Joking makes you strong. When the other person jokes with you, don’t get defensive right away, respond with a humorous language.
• Do not complain about your life, even if you have a hobby or a job, tell him passionately about the things you love about your life. Being satisfied with your life makes you an object of desire. Because men prefer women who are in control of their lives, not women who need them and add meaning to their life with a man.
• Even if his car, watch brand or shoes are important to you, don’t let him know. Just as women want men to find themselves beautiful, but feel worthless when beauty is all they find in themselves, if that man thinks that the only thing you find in him is materiality, he will feel inadequate.
• Imitate his facial movements and even his body language in general without showing it to him. Laugh when you laugh, lean back when you lean back, bow your head when you lean forward. If your brain waves are simultaneous, your subconscious mind will think that you look alike. And people unconsciously fall in love with people they find similar to themselves.
• Think about boys’ first loves in childhood. Their teachers always fall in love with authority figures, like the nurse in the doctor’s office. Because no matter how much they do not want to admit it, women who will leave them powerless are attractive to them. Therefore, create an authority area of your own in front of him.
• Do not ask him anything more than twice. If he doesn’t answer twice, it means he doesn’t want to answer, and your forced answer will either be a lie or it won’t do you any good. On the contrary, in such a situation, you take on the role of the mother questioning him in his eyes.
• Do not tell him about your past relationships. Even if he does, don’t tell. If asked, politely pass it off with vague phrases such as ‘we went different ways’. Position yourself as a reward for it. Keep your old relationships out of scope.
• Smile. Because when you smile, the other person automatically smiles at you. The muscles that go up with a smile trigger the nerves. This increases the chemicals associated with pleasure.
• Do not tell anything negative about yourself during the dating phase. Always tell her about a pleasant life. It is very important that he believes that you are happy without him, remember.
• Let him feel useful. This can be in the form of handing the bottle (which you can actually open easily) to him because I couldn’t open it, in the form of letting him order the food, or in the form of asking him for something simple to buy from the grocery store on the way to you. The important thing is to balance your taking and his giving.
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