• Men love to be challenged. Choose topics where you can challenge him. It can be a conversation about football or playing chess together… The important thing is to feel the electricity created by the tension.
• Don’t give him a report of what you’re doing every moment. Being mysterious is the most important key to attracting attention. Let him wonder where you are, who you are with.
• Of course, being reliable in the later stages of the relationship is a plus. But in the dating stage, you need to be unpredictable, not reliable, remember.
• The disease of our age may be to be a ‘control freak’. If you have had your share of this disease, here is another secret you should hide! Yes, don’t give the strings entirely to him. But don’t paint the image of a woman trying to control the entire universe.
• Have an appetite for life. Energy is contagious. Your endless energy will eventually affect him too.
• Remember, being with him is a choice, not a necessity for you. Although the line between needing and wanting may seem thin, they are actually two different sides of the abyss.
• If you’re going to use sex as a weapon, do it skillfully. Wear low-cut, but don’t get naked. Be sexy with your body language, not talk about sex. Make it clear that you want him, but don’t be with him right away.
• Having things in common will of course feed the dating phase. But don’t try to take ownership of his features, loved ones, hobbies to create an ‘we have a lot in common, I think we are soul mates’ mood. Then you see, he fell in love with a woman he thought was you but was not actually you.
• ‘If his friends like me, it’s done!’ Don’t be mistaken. It’s one thing to get along with your friends, it’s another to be silly about getting them to love me. No matter what environment it puts you in, do not cease to be yourself, let those who love you love you as they are.
• Finally, remember, the trick is not to ‘come’ to him, but to make him come to you perfectly. The trick is not to ‘stay’ him, but to make him not want to go anywhere else. So even if you want to be open, don’t open your cards. Make him fall in love with you not by what you say, but by what you don’t say.• You don’t need to be grateful to him for taking you to dinner, taking care of you, caring for you, making you feel special. You already deserve them. But instead of being grateful, you can admire him and tell him what you admire as well. Keep in mind that the male ego needs to be stroked.
• Be careful what you offer him during the dating phase. Gestures can quickly turn into chore. For example, if you keep cooking for him to prove your prowess, he will always ask for it. Or if you show up in front of him like you just came out of the hairdresser 24/7, he will expect you to look like this all the time. Don’t get him used to the wrong things.
• Don’t try to psychologist him. Men don’t like to talk about their feelings. You are the woman he flirts with, not the angel of help for his feelings.
• Do not feel obliged to open 77 thousand different topics just because there will be silence in the meeting. On the contrary, being quiet will draw his attention more and make him more curious about what’s on your mind.
• Don’t try to control it either. If you don’t want him to run away from you to breathe, you give him the space to breathe.
• Do not assume the role of the mother, especially at the dating stage. Extremely loving phrases for you such as ‘rest a bit’, ‘eat something’ can be ‘welcome mom’ for him. Don’t turn into your mother.
• Don’t make him feel like he has to see you. What becomes a task ceases to be fun. Let him see you because he wants you, not because you press him.
• You may be planning your wedding and dreaming of your house with pink shutters since the first time you saw it. But at least don’t give it to him. Don’t even pretend that you want to get married. Since men’s biggest fear in life is losing their freedom, don’t become his nightmare.
• Yes, first dates can be really stressful. That’s why women can go into relaxation mode with alcohol. Beware of; An unconstrained, cheerful woman attracts a man, but a drunk woman instantly subverts the image you’re trying to paint.
• laugh. Laugh at the jokes he makes, the stories he tells, and laugh at yourself. A woman who can make fun of herself means a woman who is at peace with herself and self-confident, and every man knows this.
• Why do boys prefer action games while little girls play house? Because women like orderly life, men like excitement, struggle and adventure. Give him excitement, not a routine relationship. Surprise her so she falls in love with you.
• Between two restaurants, one full and one empty, most people prefer the full one. Because he thinks that others know something. Here you must be a full restaurant. Create the impression that other men desire you, that they are trying to get you. But do it skillfully, without looking like you’re trying to make her jealous.
• During the dating stage, hide your jealousy in the chests. To envy means to possess. And ownership means the end of the other party’s freedom. Moreover, a self-confident woman does not compete with other women.
• Don’t ask him about his past relationships, and even if he does, don’t try to tell him. It’s too early to talk about these, try to get to know each other, not your past.
• A strong woman does not mean a woman like a man, do not confuse the two. On the contrary, make him feel that he is a man. We don’t know if you do it by getting him to open a jar or by getting him to hammer a nail for the painting to hang on the wall, the choice is yours.