Writing: Simay Engür
It’s been a while since we moved away from the ‘Where are those old loves’ cliche. There is no trace of old loves anymore, and we don’t have much time to experience old loves anyway. Of course, this new era has affected not only the way relationships are lived, but also the sex-related part of relationships. Nothing is the same as before! Innocence out, high pleasure in!
How about being open to change in your sexual life and giving a chance to positions and methods that will increase your sense of curiosity and therefore your adrenaline? How about we say ‘the more adrenaline, the more pleasure’? It’s time to assign new roles to your partner and yourself.
Perhaps the most important thing when trying new fantasies is to review your fantasies and desires, share them with your partner at the right place and at the right time, and find out how positive he/she is towards new ideas. Because encountering rejection while trying to get away from monotony with a sudden attempt may be a move that will harm your relationship. After discussing all this openly, listen to five new sex trends to eliminate those familiar positions of love, save your pleasures from the shadow of clichés and accumulate brand new fantasies.
1. THE SOUND OF WATER
Have you heard the term aquagasm before? We all know the calming effect of water; However, you may be just now learning that it has a trademark that can take orgasm to the highest levels. When you make love with your partner in the shower, in the sea, or anywhere you can feel water, it is possible to experience aquagasm, that is, to reach orgasm in water. Scented candles, music that appeals to your taste and bath bubbles made of anti-allergic substances can give you a bathtub experience at the peak of satisfaction. If, after the first aquagasm exercise, you are still pursuing a rebellious fantasy; It’s not a bad idea to go sailing with your partner either! When it comes to love and pleasure, perhaps it is necessary to swim in dangerous waters. There is even a sex toy called Water Jet Rabbit Vibrator, which can be used during the shower, so that single people can benefit from this experience.
2. DON’T MOVE!
As you can imagine, many positions emphasize that you need to be fast. However, the latest sex trends open completely different doors of pleasure, powered by slowness and even stasis. One of them is the marinade position! This position, which will add brand new richness to your bedroom, means that the penis remains motionless inside the vagina. Lying motionless in this position for both parties can introduce you to a completely different experience of arousal and excitement, especially by filling your emotional void. If you have been away from your partner for a whole week due to endless work and you want to give each other ritual-like hours; For example, on a Sunday morning, try marinating your desires. ‘So where’s the excitement in this?’ If so, wait and see!
3. WINDING AROUND
The common point of new sex trends is to enable you to discover the deeper meaning of lovemaking, rather than a numb sexual life focused only on orgasm. In this case, knowing that your partner has your back raises not only your sense of confidence but also your pleasure bar. How Does? Of course, thanks to the 77th position, which dethroned even the 69th. The 77 position, which expresses having sexual intercourse after embracing each other in the shape of a spoon with your lover, provides you with double happiness by giving you the feeling of security of being in the strong arms of your partner and the rhythms of pleasure that will come shortly.
4. TO HAVE OR NOT TO ORGASM
Imagine a lovemaking where your sole purpose is not ‘orgasm’… What’s the point? In fact, according to Alice Bunker Stockham, the inventor of Karezza, during sexual intercourse, it is necessary to enjoy that moment instead of focusing on the finish line. The first step of Karezza is to concentrate on the moment of lovemaking by looking into each other’s eyes; The second step is for both parties to make an effort not to ejaculate. The main purpose here is to try to keep the emotional intensity at the peak by extending the time. As you can see, Karezza is a complete team effort! The focus is on compassion, long hours and a philosophy of exploring each other. This method, in which orgasm becomes an extra for the first time, may be the new leading role in your sexual life…
5. SLAVE OF PLEASURE
Just because a trend is new doesn’t mean it won’t be inspired by the past. However, it should be noted that the point of inspiration is those old feelings created by making love. According to research, sex reveals our most basic instincts, and it is necessary to take advantage of organic impulses when awakening your arousal points. As you can see, in order to experience a full orgasm, it is necessary to take on various roles. Recently, with the influence of Fifty Shades of Gray, the most used method to reveal our basic instincts is the ‘bondage’ game. In today’s world where everything is artificial, you can take advantage of the impulses that bondage will create in you to maximize excitement. How Does? Try tying your partner down and limiting his movement. The feeling of helplessness that this situation will arouse in him will create ultimate satisfaction. The important thing in the bondage game is to constantly change roles and choose to tie each other in turn. Awakening your primitive impulses by using your imagination will move your relationship away from artificial pleasures and mediocrity.