Communication is a must for a healthy relationship, but it can be neglected over the years. Happy couples owe their happiness mostly to healthy communication. Both in daily life and
They do not expect to be understood without talking in bed, they express themselves. While doing this, they do not shout at their partners, do not get angry, or sulk. “I need more time in housework.
They speak constructively when they say “I want you to help” and when they take a step like “I have a suggestion that will spice up our sexual life.”
They have special words
Happy couples sometimes speak a language no one understands. This could be a word, a sentence, a movie scene. They say these words, which remind them of a precious memory from the past, sometimes in unexpected places and go back to a memory only they know. These special moments allow them to get closer to each other and laugh together.
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A woman, a man and a relationship… From the outside, they all look similar. However, as we get closer, the color of things changes. Maybe they go to the same restaurants, watch the same movies, shop at the same stores, work in similar jobs, so they give photos that are similar enough to be an example of a “Find the 7 differences” type puzzle. However, sometimes there are huge differences at the heart of the matter, in its most hidden part. While one couple blows each other up to the skies in their sex life, the other one settles for mediocre, and months pass while the other keeps a tally of how many days they haven’t made love. Who doesn’t want to fly to the skies? But somewhere a mistake is made and the end of the rope is lost. We researched what happy couples do differently and compiled information from various studies. “I have to do something, but what?” If so, here are the tips you are looking for…
They have a pattern
“Going with the flow” is one of the most popular suggestions of recent times… But when it comes to sex, sometimes going with the flow is not so right. With the busy work schedule, children, and other difficulties of life, you realize that that flow has lasted for months. However, happy couples make love not every day, but in a certain order. Sexual intercourse helps couples get closer, and when there is no sexuality, on the contrary, they begin to drift apart. Especially men need sex more to feel close to their partners. “How many times a week?” Don’t worry about the question, combine in a number that will make you both happy.
they touch
Happy couples touch each other all the time, not just in bed. This doesn’t necessarily have to be a sexy touch. But sometimes an innocent touch can take things to a whole new level. Sex that starts like this becomes much more natural and satisfying. Small touches during the day create a foreplay effect and prepare you better for lovemaking at night.
Cast
They sometimes turn their daily lives into games as well as their sex lives. They don’t just save fantasies for bed. They love to surprise each other with unexpected flowers, cards, gifts, reservations. Thus, they also give the message “I care about you.” We don’t need to describe what sexuality might be like after such a surprise. The playfulness of these couples is also reflected in bed. They are more open to fantasies and make offers to each other without hesitation, and when both parties are willing, they add such colors to their lives. They don’t judge each other for their fantasies.
well-groomed
Regular care of your body, skin, hair and nails is important for you to feel good. But it also sends the message “I care about you” to your partner. On the other hand, when you feel good, your libido increases, your immune system becomes stronger, and your energy increases. In other words, the benefits of being well-groomed are endless. Exercise, grooming and clean clothes… You don’t need much.
practices
They are not always looking for a suitable atmosphere and intercourse that lasts for hours, sometimes they are happy by having casual sex. In the bathroom, on the toilet, in the living room, in the kitchen, just as you are about to leave the door; They can also mutually enjoy a quick reunion wherever they are. Since they know what each other needs to reach orgasm in a quick sex, they also get mutual satisfaction.
They trust
One of the building blocks of a healthy relationship is trust. The reflection of trusting each other shows itself in bed. Think about it, who wants to go to bed naked with the same person in the evening when doubts fill your mind during the day? Especially a woman whose heart and mind is at ease gives herself more to sex because she brings her emotions to bed.
They are not ashamed
Happy couples do not turn off the light while making love, on the contrary, they look into each other’s eyes while having an orgasm! Many couples who have been married for years still cannot achieve this and are ashamed. However, this makes sex much more meaningful and hot, and can make partners more flexible in terms of what can be tried in bed. Happy couples easily express where and how they want to be touched in bed.
They know how to fire
Who wants to make love after talking about how to make this month’s payments and even after a gloomy picture emerges? In fact, if possible, you should turn your back and sleep, right? Break this routine now. One of the best ways to get yourself out of pessimism in such difficult times is to make love. You don’t have to spend money and go into more debt for this. Moreover, while making love, your brain waves decrease, you become more relaxed, and according to the Quantum Law, it becomes easier for you to attract your wishes. Happy couples increase their abundance by diving into the joys of life instead of focusing on the negative.
They don’t punish
Happy couples never punish their partners by not making love. This way, they don’t turn sex into a power struggle. When this happens, after a while both parties stop wanting sex.
Instead of punishing him with a sex diet, it’s best to express yourself with words the next time you get angry with him.
They act realistic
A magnificent decor, an overly enthusiastic man and woman, sex that seems to never end, very flexible bodies and a couple orgasming and screaming at the same time. Okay, it is very nice and provocative as a movie scene, but it may not correspond to real life. If your expectations from sex are like these movie scenes, you are likely to be in an unsatisfied relationship in a short time… However, happy couples act realistically; They accept that every relationship and every sex has its own dynamics and is shaped according to the parties, and they find their own truth.
They don’t give up on special nights
We said they don’t look for the sex in movie scenes, but they don’t say no to special nights either. They look for special times for themselves and have different experiences, not only on their wedding anniversaries, but also at certain times of the year. Having such romantic nights and buying special clothes and underwear also gives happy couples the chance to prove that they still care about each other. Staying in new places, making love in hotels where you don’t have to take care of housework and where the sheets are changed by others, refreshing yourself, spending time in bed without making plans or looking at the time are moments of refreshment for happy couples.