Speaking at the Sexual Health Congress held in Antalya, Medical Sexology Consultant Dr. Akif Poroy stated that nearly 70 percent of the Turkish society does not see sexual disorders as a health problem and said, “In other words, it is thought that it is necessary to go to a healer or pray.”
Premature ejaculation and ejaculation and orgasm problems were discussed at the 21st International Sexual Health Congress held in Antalya with the participation of experts from Turkey and the world. Psychologist Şahin Uçar, Head of Sexual Health Institute Association (CİSED) Bursa Branch, explained the problem of premature ejaculation in men, which he describes as ‘uncontrolled ejaculation’.
IT IS COMMON IN YOUNG MEN
Stating that 75 percent of men ejaculate within 2 minutes during sexual intercourse, Şahin Uçar said that uncontrolled ejaculation is common in young men who have sexual intercourse for the first time. Uçar stated that the partners of men who ejaculate without control usually fake orgasms, and that the partners of men who have uncontrolled ejaculation problems experience decreased sexual interest and desire or orgasm disorders as a secondary problem.
THERE ARE MANY SYMPTOMS OF EARLY EJACULATION
In uncontrolled ejaculation; Şahin Uçar noted that symptoms such as uncontrolled ejaculation, decrease in sexual satisfaction, guilt, shame, worthlessness and inadequacy, disappointment, lack of sexual reluctance that occurs over time, and insistence on second sexual intercourse after the first ejaculation, hypersensitivity of the penis skin, magnesium He stated that issues such as low level of arousal and inadequate perception of the arousal process are among the reasons for uncontrolled ejaculation.
NEARING STYLE IS IMPORTANT IN SEXUALITY
Speaking about the underlying reasons for uncontrolled ejaculation, Şahin Uçar said, “A man who is pressured or caught while masturbating or during his first sexual experience directs all his attention to the outside in his subsequent sexual experiences, cannot realize his own arousal and the point of no return, cannot focus on pleasure and emotions, and spends his sexual energy on anxiety, fear and “The blaming, punitive and shaming upbringing regarding sexuality is an important factor,” he said.
THEY EAT FAST AND DRIVE FAST CARS
Şahin Uçar emphasized that the whole issue in uncontrolled ejaculation is related to the man’s failure to notice his physical sensations, and noted that the man who cannot realize his rising sexual excitement ejaculates prematurely. Men who ejaculate without control tend to eat fast, drive fast, act hastily in everything, get angry quickly, act uncontrollably, trust very quickly or have difficulty trusting, have an anxious mood, have problems with their fathers in their childhood, wet their beds in their childhood, and generally have a high level of education. He noted that they have common characteristics such as being
A MAN SHOULD STOP SATISFYING HIS WIFE
Explaining that sexual therapy is important in the treatment of uncontrolled ejaculation, Şahin Uçar said:
“The man should stop thinking about his partner, that is, satisfying her. Instead of the thought of ‘I shouldn’t ejaculate’, the thought of ‘If I ejaculate, I should ejaculate, but I must experience pleasure first’ should be placed in the man. It is necessary to learn to enjoy sexuality in a relaxed way. The woman’s perspective is very important in sexual therapy, and even determines the success or failure of the therapy.” “Women’s active participation in the process also has an important place in ensuring that the therapist practices or the man copes with the existing situation. In this respect, women should always realize that they exist, are cared for, have a function and are considered during the therapy process,” he said.
64 PERCENT OF WOMEN HAVE ORGASM PROBLEMS
Medical Sexology Consultant Dr. Akif Poroy made a presentation titled ‘Ejaculation and Orgasm Problems’ within the scope of the congress. Dr. says that orgasm is a problem in itself. Poroy stated that according to the results of research conducted in recent years, 35 percent of women in the world have the problem of not being able to orgasm, and in some studies, this figure goes up to 64 percent.
IT IS THOUGHT THAT YOU SHOULD GO TO A FURUKIST
Emphasizing that women in Turkey experience orgasm problems when they get married due to childhood discourses such as ‘put your legs together’ and ‘this is a shame, it is a sin’. Poroy said, “In a recent study conducted in Turkey, the rate of people who considered sexuality ‘shameful’ was 44 percent, while in another study, the rate of people who said it was ‘a sin’ was 32 percent. In another research, 12 percent of the society described it as disgusting.” ‘Who do you go to for sexual disorders?’ “In a research question, 67 percent of people do not think that this is a health problem, that is, they think that it is necessary to go to a healer or pray,” he said.
MEDICATIONS AFFECT INABILITY TO HAVE ORGASMS
Emphasizing that erectile dysfunction in Turkish men is an important factor in why women in Turkey experience orgasm problems, Dr. Poroy stated that, according to a study conducted in 2011, 49 percent of Turkish men had severe erectile dysfunction. Noting that high blood pressure medications also have a significant impact on women’s inability to orgasm, Dr. Poroy explained that many drugs used in psychiatric diseases cause women to have problems with orgasm.
(DHA)