How does relationship status on Facebook affect relationships?

We share many details about our lives on social media. So, how correct is it to share our relationship status and private photos? Do you think relationship status should be disclosed on Facebook? According to the survey conducted by KızlarSoruyor.com with more than 5 thousand members, girls and boys agree on this issue: Relationship status should not be disclosed on Facebook!
According to the results, more than half of both girls and boys say “There is no need to disclose relationship status on Facebook.” So how does sharing details about our relationship affect our private life? While there are those who say sharing such details on social media will harm the relationship, there are also those who say, on the contrary, sharing such things shows loyalty to the relationship. Based on the book of Communication Specialist, Trainer and Social Media Consultant Nurhan Demirel, who found an answer to this question with her book “No Relationship”, Kızlarsoruyor.com asked this question to its members.


In the survey answered by 5165 people, 48 percent of men and women (2490 people) think that their relationship status should be disclosed. 52 percent (2675 people) say “No, relationship status should not be disclosed on Facebook.”


Girls Boys Total
Yes 1200 1290 2490 (48%)
No 1331 1344 2675 (52%)


Nurhan Demirel, the author of the book, said, “While relationships are complex enough, figuring out how to position yourself on Facebook makes relationships even more complicated. At this point, a photo shared on Facebook, a suggestive word or a change in relationship status can cause the end of a real relationship or marriage. “Therefore, your relationship status is private and should not be shared on Facebook, and we should not feel obliged to make a statement about it.”


On the other hand, interesting opinions and comments shared by girls and boys about our relationship status on Facebook are as follows:


Private User (18-24)
Ohh, I finally have a girlfriend! In my opinion, these are the people who “exist” with the feeling that everyone should see it, everyone should know it, and those who are jealous will get mad.


kosmokos Age: 22
If we wear a ring to say “I have a lover/fiancee/spouse” in real life, it is the ring to say “I have a lover/fiancée/spouse” in social life, “I am in a relationship.” etc. Using indicators such as. That’s why I think this strengthens the trustworthiness of the relationship rather than anything wrong. Love may be one thing, but trust is everything. Don’t forget.


Blackie Age: 20
It bothers me that my girlfriend is constantly harassed and harassed on Facebook in our country, which is the Africa of sexuality. Relationship status is a must in order to reduce this situation even a little bit…


patriot37 Age: 44
It doesn’t matter whether he explains it or not, because I don’t believe that information.


KemalSönmez Age: 25
There’s no need. All relatives in the talukat opened Facebook. They look at the accounts of their acquaintances as if they were looking at people passing by the village coffee house.


esk1508 Age: 25
Those who need to hide their relationship status; He is from the group of people who have the feeling of “maybe I can find someone to love more”…


pekkomik Age: 34
It seems pointless to me. However, for a while, I was subjected to such harassment, even from men I knew as friends; Because I was fed up, I changed my status to “in a relationship” even though I was actually single. Why? Because the mentality of this country only allows women under the shadow of a man to breathe.?
MissGoogle Age: 18
”Crack. As far as I see, this is done by people with the mentality of ‘I have a girlfriend now too’. Two days later, piss, the relationship was gone.


turkishcoffee Age: 22
According to men, making a relationship status = advertising the relationship
Relationship status for girls = shield to protect the guy from other girls


madamrainbow Age: 18
If I have a boyfriend, I would have his relationship status checked if he is married and has a psychotic wife, but since he doesn’t exist now, it’s not really necessary.


Pentin Age: 25
The relationship status issue can be between spouses, but I think it’s an unnecessary ego boost for lovers. I never did; I don’t think so.


azimli_fare Age: 25
The man made his relationship status exist, so I withdrew myself. It turned out that the man was not in a relationship, I stayed with the one I fell in love with, and because I withdrew myself, the man gave up hope on me. Set your relationship status on Face according to your real situation, do not play with people’s settings.


ahudiyebiri Age: 24
I don’t use Facebook, but if I did, I definitely wouldn’t share my photos with my lover. Today, those who share photos and write “I love you like this” in their captions try to delete the photos, check-ins, and love quotes when they break up. When you’re with someone else after 3-5 days, go back to the beginning, what’s the need, I want my happiness too. No one needs to know about my unhappiness.