Even in couples who have been married or together for many years and have regular sexual intercourse, the fact that the parties do not show enough affection to each other can cause problems. Not touching each other outside the bedroom, not kissing each other, not being able to talk about what they have lived and shared for years, not expressing what they like or don’t like can distance them from each other and cause them to be alone with many sexual problems. For this reason, experts state that the basis of sexual intercourse is trust and one way to ensure trust between spouses is that the couple often touch each other with affection.
wouldn’t be insecure
The basis of a happy sexual life is based on mutual trust as well as romantic feelings between couples. Lack of confidence can cause many sexual dysfunctions, especially vaginismus, in women. Sex therapist Alev Yıldırım states that according to studies, sexual dysfunction is a problem that 30-60 percent of women in Turkish society face at least once in their lifetime.
Avoid prejudices
The fact that sexuality and sexual relations are accepted as a subject and experience full of shame, sins and prohibitions, which are strict rules in our society, causes people to grow up with these prejudices and wrongs. These judgments significantly hinder the curiosity and research of sexuality-related issues, thus finding and adopting the right information.
The duration of foreplay is important.
Experts say that prolonging the period of foreplay can have a positive effect on overcoming sexual disorders caused by fear and hesitation, especially vaginismus. Mutual respect, trust, honesty, open communication and sharing are important for the solution of many sexual problems, especially vaginismus.
Decisions about sexuality should be made together
Both parties need to respect each other’s privacy and not accept undesirable sexual behavior from each other. Decisions such as oral sex, fantasies, using sex toys need to be taken together. Otherwise, experts underline that an important trust problem will arise between the couple.