The decor of your home can say a lot about your relationship, whether you’ve recently moved in with your new girlfriend or you’ve been living with your partner for years.
Furniture And Choice interior style consultant Rebecca Snowden shared what your home decorating habits reveal about your relationship.
Rebecca says: “Moving in with someone important is an exciting milestone in many people’s lives and a big step in showing your commitment to that person.”
“Make sure to take things slow as you decorate your home together, enjoy the process, and reap the benefits of quality time spent together. Decorating your home with love will ensure you have a home for many years to come.”
WHAT DOES YOUR HOME ORDER SAY ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
1) The house that is frequently changed
Meaning: Unity is needed to maintain balance
“An unfinished house can be a sign of a relationship that seeks unity in terms of a common goal and purpose.
“It’s critical that both parties agree when approaching any task, especially one as big as home remodeling, so it’s important to make sure you have the right communication tactics and the desire to move forward.”
“Taking the time to finish the project and spending time together while doing it can be the key to keeping the process healthy.”
2) show house
Meaning: Respect and awareness
“The most compatible couples tend to have regular rotations, a routine for chores and cleaning, and even simple habits like caring when things go wrong in the house; each spouse is aware of what the other is doing and contributes in another way.”
“These relationship structures are as much about justice as they are about respect, awareness, and conscientiousness. It can also be incredibly sexy for a partner to anticipate a situation and get it done without you asking.”
“Don’t put off any housework. This will reflect positively on your relationship.”
3) Functional home
Meaning: Appreciation and understanding
“In couples who value the same things, functionality will come to the fore alongside aesthetic appearance and harmony.”
“A couple may disagree on something, but if there is mutual appreciation and understanding, one side can bow to the other on their wishes.”
“For example, a person may prefer all utensils to be out of sight, but may not oppose displaying pots and pans if there is an aesthetic concern.
4) House full of junk
Meaning: Creating memories is very important
“In what some might call a mess, you can see the happy years you spent together.”
“While a busy and stuff-filled interior can potentially reflect a lack of organization or time, making sure you both make time for household activities can keep things from piling up and offer a chance to take care of your living space.”
“One thing is for sure, having a home full of little things that have sentimental value will show your relationship to anyone who walks in and will really help you create a comforting home.”
“Just be careful not to overdo it because that could mean more cleaning is needed, which could affect your relationship even more.”
5) Upcycled house
Meaning: Passion and creativity
“If upcycling is a shared passion, then this could be a great bonding opportunity for a couple. Shared values of the environment, savings and recycling can represent strength in a relationship.”
“It can be fun to look for new furniture and new places to find it. The creativity required to transform one thing into another will be a social enterprise and will empower you financially.”
“Likewise, if one partner cares more about it than the other, it can cause friction. Shared values, respect and communication should always be the first step before you start buying or designing shared property or living space. Gently introduce your partner to the things you care about.”