There are differences. This is a reality that permeates every relationship. Sometimes separation comes screaming from the azure sky, other times it’s like watching an oncoming train and knowing you’ll never get off the road in time. But not every relationship ends in a loud and dramatic climax. Sometimes the end has already come and no one has noticed. So is your relationship in turmoil? Here are 5 features that can indicate that your relationship is over…
1. You do not communicate
Communication is vital to the success of a relationship. After all, no one is a mind reader, and expecting your partner to be able to sense your wants and needs is a one-way journey to frustration and disappointment. However, there is a difference between communicating and “filling the air with noise”.
2. You just fight
No matter how compatible or in love they are, there is no couple that doesn’t fight. Fighting is actually the healthy side of a relationship. But certain fights, of course…
The transition from fight to fight is a sure sign that something is terribly wrong at the core of your relationship and none of you have managed to work it out. Maybe you don’t want to admit that you’re wrong. Maybe they can’t put aside previous arguments and you experience passive-aggressive emotional ups and downs. This is not an indication that the relationship is getting any better.
3. There is no trust
One of the hardest things to accept in relationships is that no one is perfect and people will screw things up. Sometimes clutter is painful, but it’s something that can be worked on. But once trust is broken, it is very difficult to mend. If there is no trust left in your relationship, your fights and doubts will increase.
4. Nothing is resolved
Of course, not all conflicts in relationships look like fights. Sometimes these conflicts are the absence of progress where nothing changes no matter what you do. There may even be discussion after discussion. You can fight, shout and scream. But remember that nothing will be resolved in such fights.
5. You want it to end
Many people linger in broken or flattening relationships as they look for something they can cite as the reason for their breakup. Ironically, this is the surest sign that the relationship is over; It’s over because you decided it. One thing many people forget is that you don’t need proof that a relationship is over or a sign that it’s time to leave. But at the end of the day, the only reason you end a relationship is because you want it to end.